No One Knows What Goes On Behind Closed Doors!

Though mine and my brother's parents required us to speak truthly when either of us gave them a report.

Our biological father required us to lie for him when ever he received a phone call or visit that he did not want to be bothered with...

Friday, September 28, 2012

When Anyone Goes Though Out Their Entire Lives Thowing Tantrums to Force Their Chosen Lifestyle of Lies Upon Others....

A person who lives self-righteously believing the devil's lie that it is better to conceal ones past sins than to confess them within the Sacrament of Reconciliation... holds themselves and others who choose to allow themselves to remain in relationship with him in bondage forever.
 
Jesus said:  "If the hand causes you to sin....Cut it off!"
 
HE was not talking about body parts but relationships with anyone who refuses to live by the 10 Commandments and all of God's written Holy Word.
 
His righteous little ones who cry out to HIM day & night will always be despised by such a person out of his own jealousy.
 
Jealousy of the peace which surpasses all understanding which we HIS joyfully happy content ones...content to eat vegetables in thy own humble tent in parks than to eat meat in dens of hateful angry tyrants who refuse to lay down their arrogance.
 
Those who live a lie regardless what it is they lie about...they must not maintain sound minds for how else can they remember the lies of their entire life time in order to not contradict themselves.
 
The irony is that to maintain the sound mind and self control that God promises in the Book of St Paul to Timothy:  "God has not given you or I spirits of fear but of power, love, courage, sound mind & self-control"...
 
One must always speak kindly never harshly for harsh words dry up the bones and cause arthritis and as one continually makes themselves sicker with their own bitterness they store up and harbor for the next opportunity to blast back and beat up with even more crude harshness than before.
 
And so they push away from themselves what it is that they desire the most.
 
To love & be loved that which every human was created & designed by God for God to be....but love is patient and kind never self seeking....
See the irony and contradiction?
 
Girls often marry men or males like their fathers.   But as we all know that though all males are male not all are men.  For men do not power tower over to abuse their wives or daughters....they love their wives as Jesus Christ loves the church.
 
As Jesus Christ so loved us all and laid HIS life down that we may have life, enjoy life to the fullest...
Husbands are to love and nurture their own wives as they do their own flesh.
 
But he who has way so many sins he cannot possibly hide any longer yet refuses to go avail himself of the Sacrament of Reconciliation the Holy gift from God through                             HIS Son Jesus Our Lord Jesus Christ...
 
How can he stand to look at himself, how can any topic of conversation be safe to engage with him?
If only all such men would run to the Catholic Church and repent??
 
What can you and I learn from such a father?  Sadly to many sons and daughters of these you will find in jails and prisons across the United States and around the world.
Only a very few choose to do what the Lord commands and cut away the hand...the relationships that cause you to sin or your conscience to grieve.
 
In today's wicked society where evil is passed as good & righteous and the righteous who live according to the Holy Gospels and 10 Commandments are said to be evil because they are no longer the majority but only a few....
 
The harvest is plenty the laborers are few...most have chosen to plant themselves in the futile soil of mischief and folly which is plentiful but leads to Eternal Fire of Hell.
While the few who choose to endure the criticism hatred and abuse of those who have and abuse their power of wealth and or position..
Soon and very soon the land, and the wealth of the wicked that God lays up for them....
Soon and very soon HE will roar through here again since Katrina, Gustav and Isaac and the storms before them were not enough chastisement for them to change from their wicked ways...
 
Soon very soon the Lord will return and what will HE find you doing?
 
Will HE find you consoling or controlling?  Will HE find you prayerfully watching and waiting as you gratefully praise HIM and lead others to HIM with your example?
 
Will he find you discerning between what you have been shown by your father & his father and what Our Heavenly Father has written in the Holy Scriptures and onto every human heart...
The choice belongs to you and I.
 
Do we copy-cat our biological or adoptive father's poor choices and die with him?
 
God hopes we choose HIS best and we simply honor our fathers with our prayers that HE draw our fathers to Himself before they draw there last breath...
 But follow the Lord alone not our biological fathers poor example!
 
 

Thursday, September 6, 2012

Every Child Has a Natural Tendancy To Believe

Every human being God creates in every maternal womb is born with instincts to trust their adult parents who nurture them from birth.

Each human heart was created to love and be loved.  Each human heart natural trusts until it is taught not to.

A persons thinking is developed as they grow and experience how the adults in their lives act and speak not just to them but also in front of them.

But what happens to a child who witnesses too many contradictions in their parents life styles?
Both of my parent's words and actions were different if they were out and about with either me alone, out with me and my brothers,  or at home....and even far more different when only one of my parents and I were home alone!

Their behavior, attitude, and their morals changed every time the social dynamic changed.

But all people were created by God for God: To love and to be loved...To live honorably...
To say what we mean and mean what they say!
To speak honestly in every situation and way.

To not only speak and seek truth but to hunger for truth & righteousness for truth, love, mercy and righteousness is God Himself

To seek God's Holy Face with one's tender and personal embrace is the height of life itself.

Living any other way is living a lie and always brings misery and never happiness.
It is the opposite of what my father believes, and possibly your father believes too...
It is not in denying the truth of past poor behavior that makes a shameful truth go away...

It is in confessing or sins, confessing our truth within sacramental reconciliation and receiving absolution that one is washed clean by HIS Blood and one can begin living righteously for real.

When anyone goes through life trying to bury his unconfessed past, he keeps himself and those he loves in bondage and blocks himself, his wife, and those he loves from receiving the peace which surpasses all understanding...

The life he and they were created to live.

Sadly not every child has the ability or the opportunity to not only separate their father or mother's negative attributes from whatever positive ones they may have.

Not all children have the opportunity to move onward soon enough that they can shake off and not take with them a father's harshness or a mother's jealousy.

I have yet to understand how a mother forms jealousy of her daughter, but it does happen.
I have witnessed jealousy in my mother & in her mother my grandmother who is now deceased.

I have witnessed jealousy where there should have been love, affection and peace.

It is sad because my mother and hers before have wanted what my husband and I have but they never have had...   A loving, joyous, sacrificial marriage...  A happy heart that rarely gets over turned.

Sad that all can have what we have but refuse to do what is required to have it.

They will not cut off and away what keeps their hearts in turmoil and bitter...
They carry their own sins within their self-righteousness...

Not laying them at the feet of HIS Cross where there is not only forgiveness, mercy, and healing to move on...and doing so they would receive that which they have lost and yearn for...
The return of their own innocence.